Importance of positive thinking: There Is Still Hope



        Many of our failures have the ability to sweep us to greater heights of success, even higher than we ever hoped for in our wildest dreams. Life in many regards is simply a successive unfolding of successes from failures. In discovering America, Christopher Columbus even experienced some absolute failures. His ingenious reasoning and experiments led him to believe, that by sailing westward he would eventually reach India. Consequently every Native American carries the name “Indian,” as the perpetuation of the memory, of this failure by Columbus. The Genoese navigator obviously did not reach India as calculated; so the cargo of “human souvenirs” he took back to Spain to show to Ferdinand and Isabella as proofs of his success, really attested his failure. Yet the discovery of America, wound up becoming a far greater success than any possible finding of a “back-door “to India could ever have been.Another great example of great failures redounding to successes would be in the life of David Livingstone. He was a man who supplemented his theological education by completing a medical education course before heading into the missionary field. For over three years he studied tirelessly. With all energies concentrated with one aim; to spread gospel in China. The hour finally arrived when he was ready to embark enthusiastically for his noble chosen work. He had a mindset, to give his life unselfishly and relentlessly for such an ambition.  Then word came from China that the current “opium war,” would make it folly to even attempt to enter this country. However, disappointment and this setback, did not long daunt him. He instead offered himself as missionary to Africa—and he was accepted. His glorious failure to reach China opened a whole continent to light and truth. His study proved an ideal preparation for his labors as physician, explorer, teacher and evangel in the wilds of Africa, [The Trumpet]


Dr.Thomas.V.Thomas
            What can we glean from these compelling accounts? Nowadays, many of us expect our will to be done instantly. We’ve become accustomed to commodities as; instant coffee, instant noodles, fast food. We have less time or patience to cook food (especially from scratch). We find ourselves often on the run, and gladly spend a little extra money for ready to eat food, as opposed to saving it and making it at home. When it comes to everyday life, the majority of us have little to no patience. As a result we become more vulnerable to making lot of needless blunders. Consequently, many are more prone to enter into various stages depression; Are quicker to contemplate the idea: “just kill yourself to solve your problems” and you will be delivered from your “failures”.Columbus may have been initially considered a failure by not reaching India as he presumed and my “wasting” the royal money, but his discovery of America through his failure to find India, resulted in Him being one of the most honored of men in history. David Livingstone was in some regards considered a failure, as he did not go to China as he planned for so long, for his lifelong ambition. Yet, in retrospect was he a failure? Perhaps according to some human standards, but if God had other plans for him such as Africa in the stead of China, then not at all.
               Young people, especially students want this and that, and expect it instantly.  Thus, when they cannot get it, they allow the situation to get the best of them, and end up miserable. Many of them go through years of agony as they try short cuts to happiness, through drugs, alcohol, sexual experiments etc. They want to “shine” in front of others and equate that to greatness and sources of happiness. They want others to appreciate them just like everyone else, yet if that is not a result, they often become devastated. Can we accept failures as a part of our lives while living on this earth? We must learn to not be too quick to rush out to achieve success, and at the same time, expect it to happen every time. There is nothing wrong in trying, it is noble in itself, but it is essential to maintain the mindset, of expecting the best, but being prepared for the worst. Consequently, it garners no reason, to lead into a mental breakdown.  Is it not far better for us and others around us, to simply live a happy life, and reach your goals slowly and steadily?
              Many of our life’s failures or setbacks play an important role in sweeping us to greater heights of success, than we ever hoped for in our wildest dreams. Most often people, when they are faced with failures, the initial responses are anger, frustration, and disappointment. However, only few who face the courageously, are willing to make the “super human” effort in order to turn such setbacks events into better tomorrows. Poverty and trials in a person’s life have historical precedence, in being the catalyst that brings out the greatness in us to shine.God teach us through failures too. “Failure is one of God’s educators. It is through experience which leads man to higher things; it is the revelation of a way, a path hitherto unknown to us. The best men in the world, those who have become among the greatest successes, look back with serene affection on their failures. The turning of the face of Time shows all things in a wondrously illuminated and satisfying perspective.” [Trumpet Magazine]
               It is quite a disappointed, when successes made through hard work fades away.  However, if we use these stumbling blocks, and allow them to rather become more of stepping stones, we will find ourselves on our way to better future. The failure of the caterpillar results in the birth of the butterfly. The bible very clearly says: destruction of the seed is the prelude to its resurrection, as wheat. We must die first in order to be resurrected. Everyone wants to go to heaven, yet no one wants to die. We all want to succeed but no one wants to fail. Almost all achievements result only because someone else failed many times first, before such successes are manifested. Darkness comes before the beautiful morning with all its brightness. Failure is like darkness, but we must remember that it is darkest before dawn when the sun begins to rise in the sky. Our gloomy past can be the 1st stepping stone to a bright tomorrow. No child ever walked few steps at a time but started with little by little falling down first, then rising up, and falling again. Birds fly miles but not on 1st day of its hatching. The mother bird watches over its little ones as they learn to fly against difficulties.
             Our good Lord watches over us as well, as we fall down and learn to take our small steps of faith. God reminds us that if He cares for the littlest sparrows, He will surely care for us too. As we study, labor, and build our families, let us not forget the loving and caring voices of our Savior, Who promised to carry us through the winds and storms of life. Let us remember that the very encouraging words of God’s Word: “THIS TOO, SHALL COME TO PASS”. As young people, we all have experienced such uneasy storms in our minds of whether or not we would “pass or fail in life’s bouts”. We must be careful not to become overwhelmed with the multitude of uncertainties, worries and anxieties. Can we add anything positive when we worry excessively?Perhaps we have all heard the cliché, “don’t worry yourself sick”, well there is a lot of truth to that, and many wind up doing just that. Why therefore should we spend sleepless nights by worrying over things we cannot change. This does not mean that we must not be concerned or make efforts to change situations for better. However, too much worrying can bring us to the beginning stages of depression, and many other sicknesses related to body and mind.Let us learn to believe, to trust, and to obey, in the One Who reminded the apostle Paul, and us, that “His grace is sufficient for us.” That one is named JESUS.